Bid adieu to humdrum monotonous sex with this fantastic guide that tells you exactly what you should get. These are 72 tips that will definitely unleash the carnal animal in both you and your partner!
Start At The Beginning
1. The colors you choose to surround yourself with during your lovemaking can have more of an impact than you could possibly imagine. Red is the universal color of passion, and always a good color of choice.
2. A research survey done by Masters and Johnson has shown that the outer areas of a woman’s vagina is the highest erogenous zones on her body, so teasing and tasting this area is sure to work up both her and you.
3. Do not become predictable with your sex. Try different options each time. Why get fixated with the bedroom? You could try different venues, different times, go on a holiday, etc. It helps bring the newness in your sexual experience.
4. An exciting idea is to book a hotel room for the night. Make sure this hotel room has a large bathtub. So many movies feature a sex/lovemaking scene in a bathtub, so why not give it a try.
5. Make oral sex a part of the routine. This is a really great way to arouse your man and then get the favor reciprocated in kind. Some vibrating machines can add to the excitement of oral sex. These machines can be connected to the tongue and lead to some very exciting sensations.
6. Make your experience about more than just the act of sex. Make it entertaining, draw it out. You can search the internet and find multiple adult games you can play. If you don’t have time to do the research first, how about a sultry and fun game like strip poker?
7. Women are perennially complaining about not coming to their orgasms. Well, there are things that could help. One of the ways you could do this is to place a pillow below the butt which raises the vaginal area to an optimal position. This is a great position for getting the most optimum contact of the penis with the clitoris, always helping in reaching earth-shattering orgasms.
8. Sick of housework? why not make it fun, put your washing machine to much better use! Have your man sit upon the working machine then straddle him. The vibrations coming off the machine and through your man will make this one hot experience.
9. If you are doing this washing machine thing, you need to select a mode that gives you a long time for enjoyment. Something like a longer wash cycle will really help.
10. If you regularly use a vibrator or other sex toys, do not be afraid to let your partner know. You want to be sure that you both get the maximum pleasure from your experience and if a vibe gets you off then that is what you should use. You will find that your partner is just as excited about it as you are.
11. The most important thing is communication. If neither of you vocalise what turns you on, how will you ever know how to please each other? Ask her what she likes, and make sure you tell her what you like. Always let her know how sexy you think she is, if you let her know this then she will feel and act like the sex bomb you know she is.
12. Get to know your man’s penis by masturbating him. Ask him what he likes or get him to show you how he masturbates himself. Men are just as different as women as how they please themselves. Once you have learned what he likes, you can then introduce other things like cock-rings.
13. Smell. The sense of smell is extremely important to good sex. Let your man smell you all over. You will love it when he rubs his nose against the different parts of your body and we aren’t just talking about the genitals.
14. There are certain things that you should feed your man; they can make his cum taste all the more better. A list of things you could include in his diet are lemon, cardamom, peppermint and cinnamon.
15. Stay away from strong smelling foods like garlic or onions, not only do they make your breath smell, but can also exude from the pores in your skin.
16. Onions and garlic can also effect the taste of your sperm, even if you ate them days ago. The same is also true for foods like asparagus, curry and chilli.
17. One thing you have to experience is sex outdoors. Just make sure you don’t get caught. Sex in your own backyard when the neighbors are away can be quite exciting.
18. Does it seem like your woman is just too busy for sex? Try this little trick. Kiss the back of your ladies neck, slowly and sensually, then slide your hands up and down her body. This often works.
The Right Sex Position Means a Lot
19. The most common position is the missionary position. This is a comfortable position for both of you and also allows for kissing.
20. There is another reason for trying out the missionary position most of the time. When you are offering yourself to your man in the missionary position, your vaginal canal gets folded and becomes shorter. Though this gives you still the same amount of satisfaction, it allows the man to get better penetration. This actually panders to his male ego because he feels he has a bigger penis!
21. Close body contact can be highly arousing, try laying fully on top of a woman without penetrating her. You will both feel the sensations of each others bodies.
22. Have your lady ride you like a cowgirl. This is a great way to break the routing of the missionary position.
23. Don’t think doggy style is too embarrassing. It is a wonderful pose if you are into anal sex. It also gives him great pleasure because this particular position squeezes his penis on the sides, which is quite a different feeling for him.
24. Try the spoons position, have your man lay behind you and enter you either vaginally or anally. Curling your knees up in this position can also have mind blowing effects.
25. Mutual masturbation is great in the spoons position. With his penis placed between your legs, his back and forth action will arouse your clitoris.
Table Manners - Sex!
26. Bring food items into your erotic experience. Sweet sticky items like chocolate sauce and honey are great. Try licking a lollipop and then rubbing it up and down his penis then licking it off.
27. Fruit and vegetables can also be a lot of fun. If you are both game for it, things like carrots or bananas can be inserted into various orifices.
28. This is another sex-citing game. Paint lines on your man with a black marker pen in a paint-by-numbers kind of pattern. Then dab different kinds of ice-cream flavors on the different regions that are formed. Ask your man to call out different numbers and you go ahead and lick the ice-cream from that particular area. This can turn real hot! Don’t forget to ask the man to return the favor.
29. One of the most phallic looking vegetables has to be the cucumber and if you have an extremely cold cucumber, the effects on both you and your partner are unimaginable.
30. Alcohol can do some nasty things as well. Try pouring some on your partner’s body in all the right places and then licking it off. You could try some flavored alcohol to make things more interesting.
31. Ice cubes can be great fun, but why not liven it up with something a little out of the ordinary? Try using frozen berries or frozen fruit instead.
32. A good chocolate is better than sex? There is something in this saying as chocolate has a range of chemicals in it which leave a lot of people in a state of bliss. Cheese also surprisingly has a lot of similar chemicals in it. These should definitely be included.
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33. If you want your man ready to go first thing in the morning for an early session, give him a good kick start with cereal with almonds and lots of apples, it really works!
34. A great mood food to try is avocado.
35. Champagne was mentioned before as something to pour over your lover but it is also good as an aphrodisiac when drinking it. The taste of a kiss with champagne is wonderful as your tongue tingles when you drink it making your tongue extra sensitive.
36. Always keep some good mints ready. This is handy advice because you don’t know when you will be kissing someone and that could lead to a great experience to remember for a long time.
Unleash Passion
37. When it comes to having your woman masturbate you, make sure you tell her exactly what you want as most women think they will hurt their man if they grasp too tight, so if you like it hard and tight let her know.
38. If you want your woman to deep throat you during oral sex, you must take it slow and steady to begin with otherwise all you will end up with is vomit on the end of your penis. The best position for you both to be in is you standing and her on her knees in front of you.
39. Most women aren’t expert at deep throating. They find it painful and uncomfortable. If you feel that way too, then you can at least get the head of his cock to rub against the roof of your mouth, i.e. the palate. Keep a very firm grip on the portion of his penis shaft that is outside your mouth.
40. A lot of women think that a man likes to have his penis licked up and down like a lolly. This isn’t always the case and if it is something you will have to tell her how you want it.
41. Now, don’t just make it too mechanical. Don’t go on sucking so very predictably that he begins getting bored. Vary your style a bit. Make some noises. Hold his penis in different ways and suck on it. It will be fun for him, and therefore for you as well.
42. Mood music is what is called for. This will help you both relax and focus completely on each other, and will help him get more satisfaction out of what you are doing to him.
43. Don’t be fooled by stories that men don’t like their anuses explored. Most of them do. But you almost always have to be the one initiate it. The best time to do it is when you are giving them oral sex. Slowly slide your smallest finger in his anus and gradually work it inside. Lubricate your finger to do this easily. When it is inside, start wiggling your finger. He will most likely find it highly pleasurable because you are directly targeting his prostate which is highly sensitive.
44. Watching pornography during sex can be beneficial to both parties. You can both learn new positions to try and it is a good way to get each other highly excited.
Carnal Pleasures - Animal Positions
45. Do you know how gorillas do it? These big animals actually spend very little time in the real sexual penetration part of it. But they have a very long foreplay in which they mostly groom each other. You can do this whole ritual as well. Give each other a bath, scrub each other’s back and so on. You will feel the heat coming on!
46. One animal that can teach us all a lesson or two is the seal. Seals have been known to be quite aggressive when having sex; they will actually bite each other. Today, biting has been scientifically proven to be a great sex precursor, because it stimulates blood into the area and makes it more sexually receptive. So, try some gentle biting.
47. And you could always take about the giant water bug, the male of who can go on with a sexual episode for as much as a day and a half without stopping! His male ego will definitely be aroused and he will want to go on longer.
Get deep into Your Man’s Mind
48. Try this . When you have your woman on top of you encourage her to move in other ways than just backwards and forwards, have her rotate her hips. Also have her slide up towards the tip of your penis and then back down til she is fully and deeply penetrated.
49. Have a quick drying alcohol like vodka ready with you. When you are in the mood for sex, take a swig of it and then lick her on the nipples and the nape of her neck. Allow the vodka to dry. You should assist the whole thing by lightly blowing on it.
50. If your lady is quite shy in the bedroom, have her stand behind you and press herself up against you, slowly guide her hands over your body, ending with her hands around your penis and show her how to masturbate you. she will find this much easier.
51. The classic girl wrap position is always a sure hit. You have to be a bit athletic for it but it is worth the effort; you can allow your man to penetrate you fully.
52. Ask your lady to keep an item of clothing on, this can lead to huge suspense. Maybe she leaves on an item of underwear or a pair of high heel shoes or boots. Maybe suggest she give you a little striptease and then you tell her to stop before she strips it all off.
53. Tell your lady that your greatest fantasy is to have her go down on your while you are asleep or when you have just woken up. Believe me, she will try it and neither of you will be sorry.
54. A great suggestion is to introduce your lady to some vaginal exercises known as kegel. These exercises tighten the vaginal and pelvic floor muscles and increases sensitivity in the vaginal region.
55. Have you heard of Ben-Wa balls? These balls are not mere sex toys. If used t regularly, you can actually make your vagina much tighter, harder and sexier.
56. When you are thinking about oral sex, don’t just think about pleasing your man with your mouth. The peripheral things that you do are also important. You should use your hands as well. Use them to stimulate his nipples and his ass and his prostate while you are sucking him. No man can resist that.
57. Masturbation and oral sex are extremely important when you cannot have penetrative sex, such as when your partner is pregnant or going through her periods. Try looking up new ways for stimulating your partner with such techniques.
58. It truly is a myth that women orgasm only when they are penetrated. It is not important actually. A man can easily stimulate your G spot or clitoris and bring you to a climax. Try educating your man on how to do this.
59. You can use your bra, stocking or panties to great effect. Just take them off sexily and tie his penis, at the shaft. This will really send him into another world. Now make things more exciting by beginning to tease him all over with your tongue and your fingertips. Keep pulling the garment tighter so that he starts feeling more and more of the wonderful sensation.
60. Ask your lady to tie you up and tease you senseless. This can be erotic for both of you as she is now in charge and very empowered. You will find a lot of her inhibitions disappear if she has you all tied up.
61. When performing oral sex on your lady, the correct way is to swirl your tongue in the opening of her vagina and then slide your tongue upwards and flick it over the clitoris, some women also enjoy having their labia sucked.
62. Try making love in front of a mirror, the heightened sensation of watching yourself and your partner in the act is mind blowing.
63. Why not make your very own porno? Having your very own sex film to watch can be one of the most exciting experiences you ever share.
64. Try the sideways position when your partner is performing oral sex on you. Lie on your side with one leg on the bed and the other leg in the air.
65. Why not try massaging each other and then hold each other very closely. The oil can produce a truly magnificent sensation.
66. Use your hands to great effect. When probing her vagina, make a come-here signal. This stimulates her highly sensitive upper vaginal wall and clitoris.
67. Do the dishes naked. And ask your man to go about his normal routine naked too. You won’t know how much you are turning on your partner when you are doing this.
68. Treat your lady to a night of luxury, cook her a nice meal, put her in a bubble bathe with a glass of wine and then wash her all over. Pamper her if you want her to pamper you in bed. Candles in the bedroom and bathroom are always a nice touch
69. Masturbation is quite important. You need to masturbate your man during foreplay. It sets the right mood for everything else that is to follow.
70. Don’t only use your hands. although hands are important, you need to use everything you have got. Use your eyes to see your partner, use your nose to smell him, use your tongue to lick him and use your body to seduce him.
71. Treat your man to a nice smooth you, have your pubic hair shaved or waxed off.
72. Lie with your partner for long periods of time. Actually, you must lie on top of him, facing him, and gently rocking from side to side. Feel his hardness making you moist and that’s what makes him harder. That’s a great way to start out your sexual episode together.
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